Monday, August 31, 2009

Mariana is looking for a partner

I got an email from Mariana.

Mariana is a luxury escort girl (well established, she says ...) and, in short, she wants to meet me on a personal level because she is tired of having "normal" boyfriends and does not work.

For what the Mariana tells, she does not want to have a double life. So lying and hiding is out of the question for her. When she starts a relationship her boyfriend must know what she does for a living. Although the beginning seems to be okay, there are 2 kinds of problems. The man who really accept the fact that she is an escort girl do it because he lean financially. Mariana fed up. Those without financial dependence sooner or later begin to try to make her give up the profession. Mariana does not accept it.

I understand perfectly the position on the first situation. For the second, the fact that her boyfriend wants Mariana to leave the activity, I first tried to understand, but really Mariana is right not accepting it. If she accepts it she will find herself in a situation of dependence, losing what she worked hard to achive.

Mariana would like to meet me because she has been thinking that perhaps only one man with the same occupation can truly understand her and thus achieve a stable relationship.

I was flattered!

I thanked the invitation but had to decline. Because I have a girlfriend (who happens not dream that I am a escort boy) and I'm not open to new relationships.

But I wish to make clear that I agree with Mariana, and I might, in the future, if my current relationship does not work and I want to take my escort activity more seriously, to think that only someone of the same profession can accept it.

I wish all the best to Mariana, I hope she finds someone very special (escort or not ...) that respect her and with who she will be happy for life!!

4 comments:

  1. This is a very difficult situation - it must be heartbreaking for her, because it isn't easy for most men to accept what she does for a living. I wish her the best of luck in finding a man who understands her and accepts her for who she is!

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  2. I have been put in the second situation. I am now in a relationship with a man that wanted me to stop being an escort, and although it is a great relationship. I too worked hard to establish myself in the business and very often want to continue. I think she is right though, most people do not understand nor accept that it is possible to be an escort for others and be in love with a person that is not a client. I really hope for the best for her.

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  3. This is a very difficult situation - it must be heartbreaking for her, because it isn't easy for most men to accept what she does for a living. I wish her the best of luck in finding a man who understands her and accepts her for who she is!

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